just met. That’s a really normal feeling to have. Is there anything that I can do to help make you feel more at ease?” This offer may well result in talking about “lighter” matters, which is helpful for you as you begin to think about how to walk alongside this person. People are ready to delve into issues and do the work of counseling at different paces. Part of your job is to stay in step with the person so you do not overwhelm by going too quickly, or frustrate by going too slowly. Tuning in to